Perhaps you have visited here out of mere curiosity.
Perhaps you have fantasied about dominance and submission for years.
Perhaps you are submissive who yearns to serve but doesn't know where to begin. Perhaps you are an experienced person in search of dominant.
Perhaps you are a submissive who yearns to serve but doesn’t know where to begin. Perhaps you are an experienced person in search of dominant/submissive play.

BDSM

B/D refers to “Bondage and Discipline” with a wide range of activities including physical restraint and “punishment.” It sometimes involves fantasy role-play.

D/S refers to “Dominance & Submission” a consensual arrangement in which one partner takes the lead and the other follows that lead. Generally it involves some form of role-play and may or may not make use of bondage, discipline or S/M techniques like whipping.

S/M refers to “Sadism & Masochism” covers all the physical techniques that produce intense sensation, and the enjoyment of the same.

The distinction between BDSM and barbarism, “slave” or “slavery” can be summed up in one word: consent. Consenting adults making rational, informed choices. Real slavery is illegal; erotic role-play, is not.